There are many factors to consider when making a decision about your pregnancy. You may feel overwhelmed and anxious about making the right choice. At Women’s Care Mary’s Center, we want to help. Take a deep breath: you have time to decide.
1. What is my financial situation?
You might be worried about your ability to financially support (another) child. Raising a child can be very expensive. If you are on the fence about abortion because you want to keep your child but you don’t know if you can afford to do so, know that there are numerous federal aid programs and local support programs that are specifically designed to help mothers in need throughout all stages of raising children.
You should know that your least expensive pregnancy option is adoption. While abortion costs hundreds of dollars out of pocket, for the birth mother, adoption does not cost anything (the adoption agency and the adoptive parents absorb legal fees, the medical fees associated with you giving birth, provide free counseling, and in many cases, can provide housing for the birth mother[1]).
2. Do I have a support system?
Do you have a supportive partner? Do you have family who can help you care for your baby? Think about the people in your life who you trust and can help support you.
If you feel alone, know that you still have options. At Women’s Care Mary’s Center, we are committed to connecting you with the emotional support and mentorship you will need.
3. Am I ready to be a mom?
It is very normal to feel nervous about the possibility of being a parent. Becoming pregnant is a big life change that comes with new responsibilities and challenges.
Becoming a mom can help you realize that you are much stronger and more capable than you think. You can do this, and you don’t have to do it alone.
Feel like you still need more information?
Before making any decisions, confirm your pregnancy with a free pregnancy test and ultrasound. Your appointment will be entirely confidential and non-judgemental, no matter what options you are considering. You can do this. Take this next step today.